Overcoming Abundance Blocks

Overcoming Abundance Blocks

Hey Queens! Welcome to another episode of Captivation Radio. Today I want to talk to you about overcoming abundance blocks.

Before we get started, I wanted to officially announce December’s Mini Mind topic, Manifestation. This group will again take place on Voxer for 4 weeks. We will work on getting you ready to manifest everything you want in 2022. The code for your $50 off this month is MANIFEST.

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Ok let’s get into the episode…

You know when you’re trying to manifest everything you want and you just keep running into roadblocks, or maybe you manifest the things just for them to disappear, or you manifest things in a super wonky way? There are reasons these things happen and you can make little changes to make manifesting easier.

Body

Are you taking care of your body? No, really, are you? You might not correlate manifestation with taking care of your body, but it is all related. If you are not in good physical health that will affect your mental health and your energy levels. Taking care of your body does not mean you have to work out for hours every day, or that you can never eat your favorite foods. Taking care of your body does mean getting adequate rest, moving your body, and consuming healthy foods often. Doing these things will 100% raise your vibration and make it easier to manifest.

Mindset

Mindset plays a big role in manifestation. Do you have a growth mindset or a fixed mindset? Here is an easy way to find out… if you struggle with something, do you think that means you just can’t do it? Or do you believe you can learn to improve your skills over time? If you believe you can improve then you have a growth mindset. If you feel like you are stuck exactly how you were born, then you have a fixed mindset. The good news is you can learn to have a growth mindset over time.

Once you acknowledge you can in fact grow and change then you can start dealing with some common mindset blocks. One common mindset issue that blocks abundance is the limits you create in your mind. It is hard to imagine a life you have never witnessed. Or maybe you think your success is limited to a certain level. However, you can have anything you want. There is no limit. You CREATE your limits! Stop settling for mediocre dreams. Give yourself permission to dream bigger than you ever think you can achieve.

Limiting beliefs affect all of us, even the people who seem the most confident, or appear to have it all. But limiting beliefs create limits in life. We cannot manifest past our own limits.

Here are some common limiting beliefs and some ways to reframe them:

·         I can’t get up early – I’ve always overslept

o   I have so much to share with the world. I choose to make my time a priority by going to bed 10 minutes earlier and getting up 10 minutes earlier.

o   The key when you want to change a habit is to break it into easy actionable steps.

·         It’s so hard to get sales- the market is so saturated.

o   People love our products, so many people want them. There is something about me that is different and attracts customers to me.

·         I don’t have the same audience as Susie Influencer, so I can’t compete and get any sales.

o   I can take steps every day to grow my audience. In the meantime, I can value the people I already have in my corner and keep loving on them.

·         I’m not an expert

o   I am in expert in …  there is something that we are all in expert in. No one is an expert in everything. Find your superpower and share it with the world!

·         I didn’t work hard enough on this.

o   Do any of you ever feel like you have to put in a certain level of work in order for people to value what you’re doing?

o   Guess what no one knows how much work you put in besides you. They do not care if your look took 2 minutes if you have been with the company for 2 days. People only see the result.

o   My work is valued by many.

·         Nobody cares what I have to say.

o   There is someone who not only cares but NEEDS to hear your message.

·         I am good at starting projects but not at finishing them

o   I am capable of finishing whatever my heart desires. I will tackle one project at a time and create small action steps to make it feel more doable.

I don’t deserve (money, recognition, success)

o   Ok so this one is usually deep seeded. More than I can address in a couple minutes. But there is one thing I know if a desire is on your heart, it is for a reason. The universe (God, source, whatever) doesn’t give you desires that you cannot achieve. Your past does not matter and does not define you.

·         Other people are better at this than me.

o   I am unique. I have something to offer that no one else does. Everyone starts at the same exact place.

·         People will judge me.

o   Judgy people will judge you no matter what. That is about them and not about me. You need to focus on what you want.

o   I am secure in my vision and will not be distracted by other people’s opinions.

·         The people who are successful are out of my league

o   People who are successful believe in themselves enough to try

o   Be honest have you ever fully believe in yourself?

o   The only difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is successful people gave THEMSELVES permission to be successful. Do you see that – they are not waiting for anyone to give them permission. They are claiming it for themselves.

o   Once you say I can do this & you can imagine your dream then you can start taking action steps to get there.

Daily Habits

Have you ever heard someone say the secret to success is in your daily habits? This is a common saying because it is true. You don’t just one day do one thing and find everlasting success. You must do the work every day, even when you don’t feel like it. People ask me all the time how I manage to run my business, two podcasts, take care of 7 kids, write books, and still have hobbies and friends. The secret is, I don’t sleep. Just kidding. The secret is in my daily habits and my discipline. I do not allow myself not to do things because I do not feel like it. I understand that some days we will be low on energy or not feeling well or have something come up. It is okay, and often necessary, to take a day to yourself and get back on track. However, if you create your schedule the right way you will have room to do this and still get the work done. I do not spend 90 hours a week working. However, if I struggle to write during the day, I will spend time at night doing it or I will get up early the next day. I won’t quit because I didn’t get my project finished when I first wanted to.

If your daily habits are not setting you up for success no number of affirmations, intention setting, or vision boards will get you the success you desire. The Universe rewards people who put in the work.

Environment & Relationships

What if you did all of the inner work and still can’t manifest the things you desire? If you are not the problem, then it could be your environment and the people you have relationships with. If you are continually surrounded by chaos and negative people, then you will never have the life of your dreams. Have you ever seen a group with one successful person and 6 messy people? No, because successful people clear their life of this energy. No one working towards their happy future has time for gossiping and negativity.

If you spend your time and energy engaged in gossip and negativity you are telling the Universe that this is what you enjoy. Why else would you focus so much attention on it? Sometimes in order to succeed you have to go it alone for a while. It is always better to be on your own than surrounded by people who are holding you back.

Spiritual

The final category we are going to cover today is the spiritual category. This should go without saying, but if you do not believe you can manifest your desires then you can’t. Do you believe in a Higher Power or Higher Consciousness? Where do you believe your manifestations come from? This will be unique to everyone, and I do not believe there is a right or wrong answer. For me, I believe that creating a clear vision and believing it can happen aligns me with the frequency where my dream life exists. Of course, it gets more complicated than that, but that is a good way to give you a basic description.

No matter what your particular beliefs are, the important thing is that you truly believe in them. You must believe that you can manifest everything you want. Once you believe then you need to practice your beliefs. As you can see everything requires belief and action. For some practicing may require prayer, for others it may be meditation. For a lot of people that believe in manifestation they have specific rituals they follow. The method is not as important as just doing something to align you with your beliefs.

Find your preferred manifestation methods and put them into your daily routine. Don’t just do them when you want to manifest a specific thing or when you are stressed out about money. This way you are always in manifestation mode.

I love yall and I appreciate you listening! Have a wonderful holiday!

In Love & Abundance,

Falon ~ aka Captivation Queen